Category Archives: Listening

Do You Know Who You Are?

Take your basic interpersonal conflict as an example. The issue is the way she treats me or he treats me. Why doesn’t he or she treat me better? On the surface, it’s not at all about what I might do differently, but what the other person ought to be doing or not doing. This is […]

July 25, 2018 – 1:07 pm | By Dan Oestreich | Posted in Choices, Grief, Listening, Self-Knowledge, Truth, Wounds | Comments (0)

Leadership and Support

By “support” I mean sitting on the same side of the table as someone else, being able to empathize and to respect the person’s dignity and individuality. It means serving as an advocate who genuinely believes in this person and is willing to help, even if it involves challenging feedback and straight talk. To me, […]

July 10, 2018 – 1:09 pm | By Dan Oestreich | Posted in Choices, Consciousness, Listening, Organizational Culture | Comments (0)

How to Talk to Each Other About Each Other

Over the years, working with both individuals and teams, the challenge recreates itself again and again: we fail to talk to each other about each other. We’d rather handle whatever difficulties we face in our relationships at work in almost any other way. “Separate the problem from the people,” says the guru, yet I’m here […]

September 18, 2017 – 8:08 pm | By Dan Oestreich | Posted in Choices, Conflict, Listening, Openness, Trust | Comments (8)

Waterfalls

Carmen and I hurriedly zip our jackets and hunker down in the cold while I struggle to attach my camera to the tripod and put on the right filter. Horsetail Falls in the Columbia Gorge must be perpetually in winter shade for Carmen notices how some of the mist coming off the falls turns to […]

January 1, 2017 – 6:00 pm | By Dan Oestreich | Posted in Listening, Power, Reflections and Poems, Transformation | Comments (8)