We all know that comparing ourselves to others comes with personal and professional risks, the main one being that as individuals we can develop a sense that we lack something that others have — and this is bad for our confidence, sense of dignity and self-respect. But despite this awareness, for many if not most… Continue reading On Comparing Yourself to Others
Category: Shadow
My Soul
The path does not go upward; it goes down, which for some reason is a surprise. I guess I’m so used to paths in the mountains I’m not sure exactly what to do with one that descends into a valley. I’m carrying my camera and one wide angle zoom lens hidden under my raincoat. It… Continue reading My Soul
The Hole and the Portal
People naturally turn to those they consider leaders in times of crisis — for answers, decisions, emotional support, for a clear path through tense realities that risk immense and painful change. If you want evidence of this turn toward leadership, note the wide-spread critique of the President’s inactions, corruptions and lies well represented by this… Continue reading The Hole and the Portal
The Tender Spot
I am designing a new leadership workshop and recently I asked a friend and colleague for some feedback about the design. As we reviewed the materials and exercises, he stopped at one point and said, “I think you are going too fast here. What you are asking people to share about themselves in this part… Continue reading The Tender Spot