The political scene in the United States is so deeply frustrating. We are polarized, embattled, insulted and insulting, tired of fear but still feeling it — often as a kind of midnight despair and powerlessness. What the hell happened? Now we are so easily outraged, contemptuous and seemingly desperate for radical change that means our… Continue reading Love, Truth and Thinking for Yourself
Category: Truth
On Fairy Tales
Often we can see someone else — a friend, perhaps — living out their untrue story, and we want to help. The other person says something like… “I’m an outsider — that’s just my nature!” — a story of feeling separate “Whatever room I’m in, I’m the smartest one there!” — also a story of feeling… Continue reading On Fairy Tales
On Cosmology
We are all connected to mystery through our inner worlds. Each of us possesses that subjective interior window. The question is what we have chosen to do with the mystery we find there. Religions mostly attempt to reframe it into an adaptable cosmology convincing enough to spread virally, becoming a shared reality and belief system,… Continue reading On Cosmology
The Problem is Owning the Problem
A friend and colleague once articulated to me her three biggest considerations in deciding whether or not someone should be terminated. • First, did the person receive adequate feedback? • Second, did the person truly own the feedback and take responsibility for the problem? • Third, did behavior change actually occur? In effect, my friend said,… Continue reading The Problem is Owning the Problem