An elderly man I once knew — and now probably long dead — used to complain bitterly about all the people with negative ego. I never really understood what he meant by the term, as it seemed to derive from some of the esoteric and cultish literature he frequently read. It felt far afield of… Continue reading On Negative Ego
Category: Wounds
The Loneliness of Children
I am fascinated by the ways in which people can offer each other support. I include in support expressions of care and reassurance, deep listening and validating another’s subjective experience, but I also include hard-to-hear feedback, meaningful but challenging questions, and even silence — if that silence conveys confidence in the other person’s capacity to… Continue reading The Loneliness of Children
Memorial Day Prayer
Until the human race figures out how to stand up beyond war, some will go for the rest of us, standing up for us as best they can and then lying down in peace upon the hill. Let the memories of so many souls, so good and true, be deeply honored and remind us of how short the time… Continue reading Memorial Day Prayer
Things I Might Have Said
We all do it. Those after-the-conversation fantasies about what we could have said or should have said during the exchange. For some reason, one of those times has come up for me lately, one that involved a presentation I did years ago for a CEO peer learning team, a small group of top executives who… Continue reading Things I Might Have Said