It’s a truism older than the hills: leaders must at times make decisions that do not make other people happy. Because such decisions involve confidence, sensitivity and the use of individuated authority, the process may cause those who lead to come up against their biggest adversary — themselves. Lonely at the top means making judgments… Continue reading The Leadership Cave
The Practice of Reflective Leadership
For more than thirty years I’ve been fascinated by how as leaders we increase our self-knowledge through reflection and how in turn this helps us: • gain insight into our beliefs, values and motivations • challenge unhelpful thought patterns and behaviors • increase sensitivity to the needs and emotions of others • stay grounded and resilient… Continue reading The Practice of Reflective Leadership
We Are Enough
Not long ago a client struggling with his conditioning asked a telling question: “If I can’t be sure that the messages I’m sending myself are true, how on earth can I trust my own judgment?” The conditioning he battled had to do with his constant worries that he was making too many mistakes in his… Continue reading We Are Enough
On Saying What You Mean
Sometimes when a person becomes ill, their skin becomes sensitive. Merely brushing the hair on an arm becomes painful. Something like that seems to be happening in organizations right now., sensitive skin being a metaphor for a painful hesitation to talk in a meaningful way to others. Will keeps his video feed off on almost… Continue reading On Saying What You Mean