The Lost Art of Gratitude

I had one of those lucky, unex­pect­ed con­ver­sa­tions last night with a cou­ple of col­leagues, Bob Berntson, the Man­ag­ing Part­ner of Berntson Porter & Com­pa­ny and Annalee Luh­man, Learn­ing & Lead­er­ship Man­ag­er for the Port of Seat­tle. As our talk moved from recap­ping the year to recap­ping big­ger parts of our lives, we found our­selves express­ing grat­i­tude — for peo­ple, for expe­ri­ences — and being con­scious about it.

We reflect­ed, too, and more gen­er­al­ly on how harsh real­i­ties can be right now, how scared and com­pressed oth­ers some­times feel, how hard most of us are work­ing, and how we don’t talk often enough to each oth­er per­son­al­ly and infor­mal­ly. The chal­lenge of it seems to be in find­ing the time to let go and to let life come back in on its own, nat­u­ral­ly affirm­ing, sacred and gen­er­ous. Is it too hard to do this or too easy? Any­way, the grat­i­tude was sud­den­ly there for the three of us like a lost art, and that was a fine moment. We felt blessed.

This morn­ing, as I strug­gle with my to do list, relive con­ver­sa­tions in my head, fig­ure out the next move this sea­son, I know things have returned to their crazy nor­mal. Ah, for a touch­stone to keep that art alive each moment!

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By Dan Oestreich

I am a consultant, coach, facilitator and trainer supporting the growth and development of leaders and teams. For further information about my work and services, please access my Oestreich Associates website.

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