The Ears of the Wolf

Many years ago, when I was work­ing in an HR func­tion, two con­sul­tants were hired to help with exec­u­tive selec­tion process­es. Their sophis­ti­cat­ed tem­pera­ment test­ing instru­ment was used in com­bi­na­tion with oth­er stan­dard tools, such as inter­views, resumes, work sam­ples, ref­er­ences, and so on. The con­sul­tants’ infor­ma­tion seemed to be par­tic­u­lar­ly com­pelling and they soon had a foothold in the orga­ni­za­tion as assess­ment gurus. 

Their spe­cial mag­ic was in iden­ti­fy­ing the tem­pera­ments that fit dif­fer­ent jobs. Good engi­neers had a tem­pera­ment that fed on projects, for exam­ple. Those with an artis­tic tem­pera­ment, dis­cov­ered by the test, would best fit more cre­ative, if “sole per­former” (non-man­age­ment) roles. Soon, the con­sul­tants were not just using their mod­el with selec­tion pro­ce­dures at the top end of the orga­ni­za­tion; they were also test­ing var­i­ous employ­ees, giv­ing one ver­sion of their results to the per­son test­ed, and anoth­er to that indi­vid­u­al’s boss. Osten­si­bly, this sec­ond report showed the boss how best to sup­port the employ­ee’s growth, but it turned out to have a more sub­tle and dev­as­tat­ing impact, as well — it implic­it­ly set lim­its on what that per­son would be “suit­ed” to do. 

Some of those boss­es, top man­agers in the orga­ni­za­tion, liked, and then used the psy­cho­log­i­cal mod­el under­ly­ing the tem­pera­ment test to eval­u­ate almost every­thing going on with­in their reach, with prospec­tive labels and pro­files pinned to almost every­one around them. 

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Soon, what had start­ed as a well-intend­ed effort to help eval­u­ate can­di­dates for a few key lead­er­ship roles — and then expand­ed as an oppor­tu­ni­ty to help peo­ple with their career devel­op­ment — sud­den­ly became an insid­er’s game of who had “the right stuff” for a par­tic­u­lar job. 

And this, in turn, became espe­cial­ly prob­lem­at­ic when the con­sul­tants began to share their view that there was one pro­file more than oth­ers that often led peo­ple to rise to posi­tions of orga­ni­za­tion­al lead­er­ship. They said you could see it visu­al­ly dis­played as part of the per­son­’s test results. That per­son­’s tem­pera­ment graph would show two peaks, and since these rep­re­sent­ed qual­i­ties of 1) clev­er­ness com­bined with 2) aggres­sion, the con­sul­tants had named this pro­file, “the ears of the wolf.” While this pro­file did not nec­es­sar­i­ly mean that a per­son would be a good leader and, if uncon­trolled, could cer­tain­ly be a dan­ger­ous per­son­al­i­ty type, in the slip­pery slope world of orga­ni­za­tion­al soci­ol­o­gy, some heard these char­ac­ter­is­tics as a suc­cess for­mu­la. Soon, a few employ­ees who matched the pro­file in a more con­trolled way were regard­ed as being on the fast-track to high­er lev­el posi­tions while oth­ers who did not pos­sess this pro­file were not. 

All this was dif­fi­cult to con­front because the con­sul­tants were “experts,” of course, (they were the only ones who could accu­rate­ly inter­pret the test results) and also because the social effects of the test were hap­pen­ing in the back­ground, among the soci­ety of insid­ers who had them­selves tak­en the test and par­tic­i­pat­ed in the con­sul­tants’ train­ing pro­gram. The tricky part, espe­cial­ly for those who desired upward mobil­i­ty, was that tak­ing the test and get­ting into the expen­sive train­ing quick­ly became a sign of orga­ni­za­tion­al elit­ism. Refuse to par­tic­i­pate? Ah, you must be afraid of the test or are not that inter­est­ed in mov­ing up! Par­tic­i­pate? Of course! But at the risk of being stigmatized.

For­tu­nate­ly, at some point the head of the orga­ni­za­tion began to notice the neg­a­tive effects, and the test and the con­sul­tants were soon abandoned.

I am not at all against tem­pera­ment assess­ment. Such mod­els and tools can play an enor­mous­ly valu­able role in self-knowl­edge. But they can inad­ver­tent­ly become weapons based on cat­e­gories and erro­neous judg­ments, weapons that have become the more or less uncon­scious tools of group­think. I’m sure you can see that the def­i­n­i­tion of what makes a good man­ag­er or leader based on the ears of the wolf was plain­ly non­sense. The full def­i­n­i­tion of the test’s cat­e­go­ry for clev­er­ness includ­ed such things as mon­ey-inter­est, capac­i­ty for decep­tion, focus on a loy­al “fam­i­ly,” and, in the extreme, sociopa­thy. The def­i­n­i­tion for aggres­sion includ­ed a cer­tain lev­el of para­noia, a focus on con­trol and retal­i­a­tion for any­thing that might under­mine the per­son­’s view of them­selves and their pow­er. In oth­er words, the ears of the wolf rep­re­sent­ed a sort of god­fa­ther fig­ure, dan­ger­ous when uncon­trolled but includ­ing qual­i­fiers for lead­er­ship when found in a “con­trolled,” more eth­i­cal form. Ridicu­lous ( and demean­ing to what wolves are actu­al­ly like) yet a num­ber of those in my work­place back then bought into this dis­tort­ed ver­sion of the mod­el as a tem­plate for suc­cess, most­ly, I believe, as a mat­ter of attrac­tion to a kind of secret for­mu­la. The only “wolf” in this sit­u­a­tion was that for­mu­la and stereo­types it represented.

In a small­er, but no less dan­ger­ous way, I notice a great deal of dis­cus­sion these days on the web and else­where about extro­ver­sion and intro­ver­sion, Carl Jung’s famous dis­tinc­tion between those (extro­verts) who source more of their ener­gy in exter­nal inter­ac­tion with the world and those (intro­verts) whose ener­getic foun­da­tion is more fun­da­men­tal­ly with­in. There is a sug­ges­tion that extro­verts nat­u­ral­ly make bet­ter lead­ers, and that if you want to lead and are an intro­vert you must do spe­cial things. There are also arti­cles espe­cial­ly writ­ten on how to man­age intro­verts, too, as if such peo­ple are more dif­fi­cult to man­age, “less nor­mal” or “less effec­tive” in the work­place. All this reminds me of an “ears of the wolf” kind of problem. 

My sense is that no mat­ter what the mod­el for tem­pera­ment, how­ev­er we per­son­al­ly come out will always feel like “the right way to be.” After doing lead­er­ship con­sult­ing for over twen­ty years and hav­ing worked with all sorts of thorny HR issues for ten years before that, I’m not con­vinced that such a sim­ple dis­tinc­tion is even close to the whole sto­ry. I’ve known hor­ren­dous­ly bad lead­ers who were per­fect extro­verts, and excep­tion­al ones that that were intro­vert­ed; some, very much so. I’ll take an intro­vert­ed per­son who has a pas­sion for lead­ing and self mas­tery any day of the week over an extro­vert that rolls over every­one around them and who does­n’t have a clue about per­son­al impact.

When groups or orga­ni­za­tions or whole soci­eties dis­cred­it this or that way of being, we begin to cre­ate a world of con­formist views, insider/outsider dynam­ics, and bar­ri­ers to con­tri­bu­tion. It’s like say­ing, well, you know, men (or some oth­er cat­e­go­ry) are like this and there­fore they are nat­u­ral­ly bet­ter suit­ed for such and such a job. Sex­ism, racism, and any oth­er form of dis­crim­i­na­tion fol­low this famil­iar pat­tern of reduc­ing some human beings with­in a cat­e­go­ry while priv­i­leg­ing oth­ers who are in another. 

The point is that over­sim­pli­fi­ca­tion and supe­ri­or­i­ty by virtue of tem­pera­ment are the real dan­gers. Sure, peo­ple with intro­ver­sion as part of their char­ac­ter may need to make adjust­ments in order to be opti­mal­ly effec­tive as lead­ers and to reduce their stress. But the same is also true of peo­ple with extro­ver­sion as part of their char­ac­ter — and equal­ly so. 

There’s an old joke that there are two kinds of peo­ple: those who think there are two kinds of peo­ple, and those who don’t. 

I’m one of the latter.

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By Dan Oestreich

I am a consultant, coach, facilitator and trainer supporting the growth and development of leaders and teams. For further information about my work and services, please access my Oestreich Associates website.

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