If you like, listen to me read this post. How many times in your own life or work have you felt that same anxiety? We are often “midway upon the journey” and “in the darkened wood.” I think of so many colleagues and acquaintances who have faced difficulties — a divorce or separation, a cancer,… Continue reading Through a Darkened Wood
Category: Trust
Dropping Into the Void
Listen to me read this post. This morning I again read the many fine comments related to Chris Bailey’s great November post, Is This What Leadership Looks Like? Chris uses the phrase, “dependency leadership model” to describe some of our most negative cultural conditioning about leadership. In the dependency model, the leader makes our decisions… Continue reading Dropping Into the Void
The Devil’s Triangle
Not the area bounded by the tip of Florida, Puerto Rico, and Bermuda, so called because it is the mysterious graveyard of ships and planes that have simply vanished. This one is much closer to home. Known as “triangulation†in relationships, it happens when two people talk about a third person when he or she… Continue reading The Devil’s Triangle
The Ciphers and Riddles of the Words
Ellin’s lovely comment on my post, “The Practice of Leadership,” helped me think about the ways we use language to either reveal or cloak ourselves in our contacts with others. This has nothing to do with being a native speaker; in fact, being one may make some kinds of communication more, not less difficult. I… Continue reading The Ciphers and Riddles of the Words