What the Hedgehog Knows About Leadership

Please par­don my inat­ten­tion to my blog. I have been writ­ing else­where: a book of 34 short per­son­al med­i­ta­tions side by side with pho­tograp­shs. It will be avail­able as a free down­load here with­in a cou­ple of weeks.

If you like, you can lis­ten to me read the fol­low­ing post.

This morn­ing I am think­ing about lead­ing work. As in, get­ting things done, deliv­er­ing prod­ucts, attend­ing to the orga­ni­za­tion of tasks, their assign­ment, pri­or­i­ti­za­tion, sched­ul­ing, and del­e­ga­tion — and how this often is such a major con­trast to “process work,” which is about how this work is per­son­al­ly led, oth­ers’ engage­ment and their own lead­er­ship, the capac­i­ties of peo­ple in groups to collaborate. 

It is true that process-ori­ent­ed folks, who nat­u­ral­ly want to cre­ate a sense of shared own­er­ship for the work, may some­times have a very hard time under­stand­ing the out­come-based urgency of enter­prise lead­ers who per­son­al­ly feel the respon­si­bil­i­ty and the pres­sure for deliv­er­ables. But sure­ly there is a bal­ance, and this thought can refine our under­stand­ing: there are the tasks, and there is the work that enables effec­tive com­ple­tion of the tasks. Out­comes and process are com­ple­men­tary by nature, but some­times fight with one anoth­er — at least they fight in peo­ples’ minds. For exam­ple, there are plen­ty of orga­ni­za­tions (in some of which I’ve tried to con­sult) where man­agers set absurd dead­lines, lit­er­al­ly pit­ting teams against one anoth­er and essen­tial­ly try­ing to work peo­ple to death. Turnover may be high, but if enough mon­ey is there in the short-term enough peo­ple will stay long enough to be use­ful. On the oth­er side are orga­ni­za­tions that could def­i­nite­ly get more done if they were clear­er and more com­mu­nica­tive about expec­ta­tions and con­se­quences. In these orga­ni­za­tions there is often a sense of enti­tle­ment and maybe nos­tal­gia for “the way things used to be, when we were a fam­i­ly.” The choice of which way to go is a lead­er­ship choice that inevitably influ­ences enter­prise cul­ture. And the point is that in both cas­es the process side is very weak. Killing peo­ple with unre­al­is­tic demands or cre­at­ing a “soft” envi­ron­ment with no defined expec­ta­tions are gen­er­al­ly evi­dence that lead­er­ship is fright­ened of process, because process demands reflec­tion, and reflec­tion requires insight into one’s per­son­al role in orga­ni­za­tion­al effec­tive­ness. There are a mil­lion vari­a­tions on this theme, from the leader who seems to be friend­ly but is actu­al­ly angry about oth­ers’ lack of per­for­mance, to the leader who abdi­cates all respon­si­bil­i­ty in favor of turn­ing over the work to a team that now has the respon­si­bil­i­ty but, frus­trat­ing­ly, none of the author­i­ty. We cre­ate mazes for peo­ple and won­der why they aren’t per­form­ing as we would like. Out come car­rots, sticks, and many forms of indi­rec­tion, all tools that sep­a­rate us from one anoth­er, and there­fore deplete true effectiveness.

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The anti­dote, it seems to me is in being real­is­tic and clear about expec­ta­tions but also being deeply sup­port­ive in terms of devel­op­ment. There can be goals for the work (e.g., exe­cut­ing such-and-such strate­gic ini­tia­tive by year end), and there also can be goals for indi­vid­ual and team devel­op­ment (e.g., devel­op­ing bet­ter inter­per­son­al skills; improv­ing team deci­sion-mak­ing). But to get to the devel­op­ment objec­tives requires also that we over­come the sense of threat from leav­ing the com­fort of imme­di­ate task ori­en­ta­tion. You know you are in the midst of that threat when there is nev­er time for the process of leader devel­op­ment or lead­ers com­plain they don’t have the skills to do it.

The mode I pre­fer in work­ing with teams is this: we are not doing “team-build­ing.” What we are doing is link­ing per­son­al and team devel­op­ment to the accom­plish­ment of spe­cif­ic objec­tives. If, for exam­ple, you have a team of peo­ple who want to save the world, then each of those folks will play a cer­tain role in doing so — these are the tasks — but each also car­ries around per­son­al “stuff” that stands to under­mine the per­son­’s capac­i­ty to accom­plish their tasks. It’s pos­si­ble to go very deep when work­ing on this stuff for each per­son, and gen­er­al­ly speak­ing, the deep­er, the bet­ter. Not long ago, for instance, I was co-lead­ing a work­shop in which one of the peo­ple talked about her hes­i­tan­cy to inter­vene in tough per­for­mance sit­u­a­tions. As she unrav­eled the mean­ing of her hes­i­tan­cy she relat­ed how at a for­mer work­place she had been assault­ed dur­ing an overnight retreat by a drunk­en male co-work­er. This had been an incred­i­bly trau­mat­ic expe­ri­ence for her, since she knew the man and had val­ued him as a col­league. Of course, there was an inves­ti­ga­tion and puni­tive action was tak­en against the offend­er, but lat­er she became the tar­get of ongo­ing blame from co-work­ers, as if the assault had been her fault. Blam­ing the vic­tim is noth­ing new in sex­u­al harass­ment sit­u­a­tions, and for her the high-integri­ty response was sim­ply to leave a job and a work envi­ron­ment she had loved. Her hon­est dis­clo­sure of the past at the work­shop and new under­stand­ing of why she might be hes­i­tant to take on con­flict sit­u­a­tions where blam­ing could occur was lib­er­at­ing both for her and the oth­er work­shop par­tic­i­pants. They, of course, were com­plete­ly sup­port­ive of her growth. She began to think about how to sep­a­rate the real­i­ties of man­ag­ing oth­ers from the real­i­ties of her own experiences.

It is true that with­out the right prepa­ra­tion and envi­ron­ment, expres­sions of this kind can be threat­en­ing. One per­son­’s stuff calls up anoth­er per­son­’s stuff, and for lead­ers who have not done their reflec­tive work, or sim­ply are very pri­vate about it, such encoun­ters can be a lit­tle desta­bi­liz­ing. That’s a safe­ty issue, and requires facil­i­ta­tion and pos­i­tive lead­er­ship to cre­ate the best con­text. How­ev­er, when the safe­ty is present, won­der­ful learn­ing can hap­pen. I recall anoth­er group learn­ing sit­u­a­tion in which one of the mem­bers, a high-rank­ing per­son in the orga­ni­za­tion, shared that he had trou­ble deal­ing with employ­ees who were “ver­bal­ly faster than I am.” Once he expressed this, oth­ers in the group, his peers, shared their own fears about these sit­u­a­tions, and togeth­er they were able to brain­storm some pos­si­ble approach­es. What a delight it was to watch this learn­ing process unfold, based on the will­ing­ness to dis­close and to be tem­porar­i­ly vul­ner­a­ble. Such process­es bring peo­ple togeth­er in com­mu­ni­ty with­out focus­ing on build­ing com­mu­ni­ty itself. They free peo­ple from the stuff that is hang­ing them up so that they take on tasks with a sense that they are not alone and iso­lat­ed, that help is always avail­able. They own them­selves and their work in new ways and increase their sense of per­son­al pow­er. They stop com­pet­ing for cred­i­bil­i­ty and stop wor­ry­ing about being embar­rassed or humil­i­at­ed. They begin to see one anoth­er as fun­da­men­tal­ly trust-wor­thy. And trust, because it is essen­tial to lib­er­a­tion, leads to high­er lev­els of per­for­mance. The whole process, it seems to me, over­comes a dom­i­nant theme in our Amer­i­can orga­ni­za­tions, which is leader as “out­cast.” The anti­dote for all of us is under­stand­ing that our self-pro­claimed wounds and inse­cu­ri­ties at bot­tom are our crit­i­cal fic­tions, are sto­ries we have cre­at­ed for our­selves about our­selves. Dis­cov­er­ing their fun­da­men­tal untruth, like being to blame for harass­ment, or hav­ing to be faster than one’s employ­ees ver­bal­ly, returns us through free­dom to our own whole­ness, and whole­ness ulti­mate­ly is what gets the job done.

And, yes, this does take time. Just as it takes mon­ey to make mon­ey, it takes time in process to cre­ate “the time” for com­plet­ing the tasks. The rea­son this is so is that there is often plen­ty of time, but none of it devot­ed to the right tasks because these tasks call up the inner work that is being avoided.

This, to me, is fun­da­men­tal­ly the lead­er­ship voca­tion called dri­ving fear out of the work­place, this will­ing­ness to reach into our­selves for lead­er­ship growth in com­mu­ni­ty with oth­ers. It is not a sim­ple equa­tion, but it’s a pret­ty darned good one. There’s a Greek apho­rism that goes like this: “The fox has many tricks. The hedge­hog has just one — one good one.” Well, I’m with the hedgehog.

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By Dan Oestreich

I am a consultant, coach, facilitator and trainer supporting the growth and development of leaders and teams. For further information about my work and services, please access my Oestreich Associates website.

6 comments

  1. Wel­come back to the blogosphere!

    As usu­al, you have post­ed some­thing that has tak­en me deep, and has required some pro­cess­ing time.

    I have a strong aver­sion to “process”, as many of my expe­ri­ences of “process”, espe­cial­ly in large orga­ni­za­tions, have been a trump­ing of ends by means. I believe process­es can be use­ful, but if, and only if, mind­ful­ly applied (and reg­u­lar­ly re-evaluated).

    You note that “process demands reflec­tion, and reflec­tion requires insight into one’s per­son­al role in orga­ni­za­tion­al effec­tive­ness” … per­haps this points out the key dis­tinc­tion — many of my expe­ri­ences with process­es (imposed by oth­ers) have not appeared to be core­lat­ed with reflec­tion or a real con­cern with effectiveness.

    You referred to an exam­ple involv­ing “a team of peo­ple who want to save the world”, and I’m remind­ed of David Whyte’s audio­book, Clear Mind, Wild Heart, in which he notes that many [non-prof­it] orga­ni­za­tions exist to change the world … and that since you did­n’t quite fin­ish that at the last meet­ing, there’s always more to do. He goes on to offer “the anti­dote to exhaus­tion is wholeheartedness”.

    Your sto­ry about the woman who was assault­ed irked me in [at least] two ways. One, because I am always angered when I hear of such trans­gres­sions, but sec­ond­ly because I don’t share your assump­tion of “Of course [empha­sis mine], there was an inves­ti­ga­tion and puni­tive action was tak­en against the offend­er” … unfor­tu­nate­ly, I believe that the will­ing­ness of a woman to even bring such mat­ters to the atten­tion of [any­thing resem­bling] author­i­ties is more than the excep­tion than the norm … and that inves­ti­ga­tions are even rar­er … and puni­tive actions rar­er still.

    On a more pos­i­tive note, I total­ly agree with your obser­va­tion that “the anti­dote for all of us is under­stand­ing that our self-pro­claimed wounds and inse­cu­ri­ties at bot­tom are our crit­i­cal fic­tions, are sto­ries we have cre­at­ed for our­selves about our­selves” … and I look for­ward to the pub­li­ca­tion of your book!

  2. Joe

    There are many poor prac­ti­tion­ers of “process,” con­sul­tants and for­mal lead­ers. If you have expe­ri­enced some of the mis­use of good con­cepts to sim­ply enforce con­trol, I am very sor­ry, because this can be absolute­ly destruc­tive. I have heard enough sto­ries to know that once burned, peo­ple don’t eas­i­ly back up to try it again. This is one of the rea­sons there is ret­i­cence to do some the deep­er work I believe is essen­tial to orga­ni­za­tions mov­ing forward.

    Good process to me may have some ten­sion attached because peo­ple may be ini­tial­ly con­cerned about open­ness and retal­i­a­tion — that’s a com­mon con­cern in our cul­ture — but it also abro­gates those fears pret­ty fast as peo­ple dis­cov­er they share com­mon obser­va­tions and desires about what they might do in pos­i­tive and col­lab­o­ra­tive ways to improve things for them­selves and oth­ers. When trust is present (and often that’s a big “when”), I’ve found that peo­ple go deep and hon­est in their self-dis­clo­sures and assess­ments of where both per­son­al and orga­ni­za­tion­al change can be most mean­ing­ful. I have a lot of faith in this approach, and for sure it does­n’t work in orga­ni­za­tions where fear and com­pe­ti­tion are the over­whelm­ing norms. 

    The trick is that in many orga­ni­za­tions, and in many per­son­al work his­to­ries, fear and com­pe­ti­tion HAVE been the norms. So there’s a spi­ral of peo­ple tak­ing small risks, then larg­er ones, in their learn­ing. I just don’t think it’s impos­si­ble, and this work, which is real­ly a per­son­al unfold­ing of poten­tials, is some­thing we can all work toward. When the leader of a group, some­body like you, Joe, offers him­self hon­est­ly and with sen­si­tiv­i­ty, this can have a very stir­ring effect on oth­ers — I’ve seen it in my career many times. No, it does­n’t work in some set­tings because of con­text or because the leader is polit­i­cal­ly naive, but in many cir­cum­stances it is an act of truth, care, and pow­er of the best kind, helps renew ener­gy, regen­er­ates hope.

    Your com­ment about “of course there was inves­ti­ga­tion” has a lot of mer­it and it is clear to me I left a mis­im­pres­sion. You are right that all too often noth­ing is said, or if said, noth­ing is done. To me an addi­tion­al great hor­ror is when a vic­tim of sex­u­al harass­ment takes the risk to speak up, the orga­ni­za­tion does its legal duty, but does not deal effec­tive­ly with the below-the-water-line reac­tions of oth­ers. The orga­ni­za­tion has cov­ered its butt yet does­n’t deal with the real-time cul­ture — this is a per­fect exam­ple of how the laws against dis­crim­i­na­tion can have the sad effect of dri­ving it deep­er and more into the back­ground where it is even more pen­e­trat­ing and destruc­tive to peo­ples’ lives.

  3. Employ­ees come to work with an implic­it trust that their man­agers are always work­ing for the best inter­est of the com­pa­ny and its employ­ees. That trust should not and can­not ever be tak­en for grant­ed. Look what is hap­pen­ing today. It is no longer “What’s good for the com­pa­ny is good for the man­ag­er.” It has become “What’s good for the man­ag­er is good for the com­pa­ny.” Top exec­u­tives have total­ly lost sight of this phe­nom­e­non and are allow­ing man­agers to run amok for their own per­son­al agendas.
    Sev­er­al years ago I wrote a book on the sub­ject of work­place cul­ture and employ­ee morale. It is as rel­e­vant today as it was then. Employ­ee morale is direct­ly linked to the inter­ac­tion of employ­ees with line man­agers who are charged with exe­cut­ing the poli­cies and strate­gies of com­pa­nies. Unfor­tu­nate­ly, many of these man­agers sub­vert the good inten­tions of the orga­ni­za­tion to meet their own per­son­al goals and agen­das at the expense of their peers and sub­or­di­nates. This man­age­ment sub­cul­ture is the result of a cor­po­rate cul­ture of igno­rance, indif­fer­ence and excuse. Bet­ter cor­po­rate lev­el lead­er­ship is the key. Read more in “160 Degrees of Devi­a­tion: The Case for the Cor­po­rate Cynic.”

    Jerome Alexan­der

  4. Jerome

    Thank you for your thought­ful obser­va­tions. I believe it is so impor­tant for us to acknowl­edge both the dark and the light sides of orga­ni­za­tions — of top lead­ers, man­agers, and employ­ees alike. It is often hard for top lead­ers to accept the real­i­ty that we all hold these dark and light sides and that it is easy to pro­voke into behav­ior these aspects in oth­ers — depend­ing on how the top lead­ers them­selves oper­ate. I have usu­al­ly found that this is not a ques­tion of inten­tion by top lead­ers but of their invis­i­ble shad­ow side con­duct, the stuff that “leaks.” As a con­se­quence, my work is ded­i­cat­ed to self-knowl­edge, so that those in posi­tions of for­mal pow­er (and those who aren’t) begin to under­stand their col­lu­sion in the very prob­lems they often say they want to solve. 

    While I haven’t read your book, I am a deep believ­er to giv­ing voice to the cyn­i­cism in orga­ni­za­tions. Behind the cyn­i­cism there is usu­al­ly impor­tant sto­ries to be heard — and even more impor­tant ideas and feed­back for improve­ment. What’s miss­ing is safe­ty to bring these thoughts and feel­ings into the open, and although it is some­times hard to work through the feed­back that ensues when the safe­ty is there, it can be an incred­i­bly valu­able open­ing to orga­ni­za­tion­al and per­son­al growth. For many work­places, a missed oppor­tu­ni­ty. Thanks again for stop­ping by, Jerome…good wish­es to you!

    For all my read­ers, here’s the link to Jerome’s book.

  5. Hi Dan,

    You might like to check my new blog “The Cor­po­rate Cynic.”
    I left the URL. It most def­i­nite­ly focus­es on the dark side of mod­ern cor­po­rate lead­er­ship but you may find it interesting.
    If any­thing, it pro­vides an insight into why employ­ees become cyn­i­cal. Thanks.

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