As a coach who works with all kinds of leaders, it’s inevitable that a certain percentage don’t come voluntarily. That doesn’t mean they aren’t excited to work with me; it means somebody else has said they need to find someone to work with — in some cases with an implied “or else.” What I find… Continue reading The Power of Mea Culpa
Category: Transformation
The Connection Between Thinking and Behavior
It isn’t always so clear how our thinking drives our behavior. Some time ago I found myself working with a leadership client who I’ll give the fictitious name, Michael. I asked him during one of our conversations: “Michael, how do you feel about working with your colleague, Jeff?” “Oh, Jeff’s okay,” he said to me,… Continue reading The Connection Between Thinking and Behavior
The Courage of Children
My wife and I took a trip to New Orleans recently. On a tour bus we passed William Frantz Public School. Do you know the significance of that school? Ruby Bridges was 6 years old when she was selected to attend the school, the only black student, by virtue of the order to desegregate schools… Continue reading The Courage of Children
How you do one thing is how you do everything
The other day I happened to read a blog post on fractals and human behavior, one that includes this provocative title line — a line that seems at first glance too simple for the complexity of our lives but also somehow holds an intuitive truth. Our self-awareness is built on a sense that we are… Continue reading How you do one thing is how you do everything