Despite all the good advice about resolving conflict, perhaps best exemplified by Stephen Covey’s famous line, “Seek first to understand, then to be understood,” people mostly don’t. When the emotion of conflict takes over and the higher functioning parts of the brain have been hijacked, what we want is to be understood, to be seen… Continue reading Anatomy of a Conflict
On Destiny and Birthright
It is tempting, in the midst of the big economic, social, and political changes going on now — not to mention human impacts on the earth itself, to want to turn and run, to protect what we have as individuals and play it safe. Isn’t that the smart thing to do? I know the feeling… Continue reading On Destiny and Birthright
The Arc: Living the Full Story of Your Personal Power
Let’s imagine a “storyboard;” you know, a series of images that are like a comic strip or a plan for a movie. Except this storyboard represents a series of important moments in your life, learning, and leadership work. What pictures would be there as the major turning points of your own story? And where, if… Continue reading The Arc: Living the Full Story of Your Personal Power
Solstice
I was moved, recently, by an electronic card I received celebrating the solstice: well-wishes and an image of apples still hanging from a leafless tree; snow falling at dusk; a somber but not heavy light. Source Unknown It’s good to know that behind the human hubbub of this season, old cycles continue. In a world of… Continue reading Solstice