On one hand, the power an organization’s leaders hold is crucial to achieving positive results and impacts. But it’s also true that that power can also lead to challenging dilemmas, especially when it imprudently meets its counterpart, resistance.
Consider, for example, the common experience of managers who must implement some kind of organizational change — the new financial reporting requirements; the new work management system; the new DEI program; the new standards for service. You name it, there is likely something that weighs down the process so that both the people responsible for the change and those being affected by it commonly report frustration, frustration being a safe way of naming other riskier emotions such as anger, disappointment, guilt, and fear. Whether the resistance is expressed as public questioning of the initiative, passive aggressive attempts to control the results or some other creative snub, the experience is one of dragging an anchor, sometimes to a complete standstill.
Over time, the outcome of not dealing effectively with resistance is that organizational knots — ones that have probably been around for awhile — become ever more deeply embedded in workplace culture as predictable routines; for example a complaint that “we have too much to do,” and “what are you going to take off my plate so I can get this done for you?”
The Temptation
In the face of resistance there is often an immediate temptation for whoever is leading the change to become more heavy handed. But the more a leader or leadership team tries to override the resistance by demanding compliance through authority the more the issues of power may become frustratingly “undiscussable,“1 unconscious, partisan, siloed, and laden with negative assumptions about the motives of others — in turn increasing the likelihood that the change will fail.
Clearly, leaders have the right and obligation to to announce needed changes and to assertively present the requirement to move ahead, but simply using authority to bear down on the resistance may very well set all the counterweights in motion. This is especially so when an organization is matrixed in such a way that one part is seemingly trying to change how another functions. If the power struggles, subtle threats and mistrust linger long enough, the political undertow can lead to departures of key players.
What can be done to lead change differently? That’s a good and perennial question — but now the mess gets even messier. There is no shortage of change theories — or consultants espousing them, most of whom consider change a technical and engineering problem that can be guided by expertise rather than an adaptive problem that requires deep relational engagement and the management of tension.2
Qualities That Matter
To my mind, no matter what theory you might adopt, there is probably no escape from five things, the first four of which are: collaboration, creativity, dignity and action.
Collaboration — The needs of those affected are considered to be as important as the needs of those who are executing the change. This means that there has to be a dialogue about everyone’s interests, not just their positions3 and there is work to address as many of those interests as possible. Indeed, you’ll have to address, for example, complaints about the amount of time it will take and how much is on everybody’s plates and work through the needed trade-offs.
Creativity — Solution-building around how a change is going to take place is a creative endeavor. An opportunity to engage and work things out creatively means not every piece of the process is going to follow exactly the same template, model or timeframe. Wherever there’s conflict, there’s a call for creativity to find a way through. You may need to start a series of small fires that can ultimately connect rather than one big fire that burns evenly across all domains in the same way. In this way, specific aspects of resistance can be pulled directly onto the table, made discussable and open as part of the problem to be solved.
Dignity — People know how they feel treated. Nothing can build resistance and kill a change effort faster than people feeling their dignity has been violated. Put-downs leveled overtly or subtly at individuals or groups do not work. Treating people indifferently doesn’t work. Focusing on the way others should be doesn’t work. Blaming others for resistance or for what’s perceived as arrogant, high-handed behavior just builds walls that are tough to dismantle. Instead use the process to build people up, encourage them, listen and invite many different views, issues, questions and feedback. Given the actual condition of the workplace, openness and dignity may have to be proved again and again.
Action — Find doable steps together and make something new; even if it’s a little thing — that moves everyone incrementally in the right direction. Build on successive completions time after time as a means of achieving ultimate results. Too often there’s just an awful lot of talk about the change, rather than the doing of it, beginning now.
Behind these four qualities, a clear Vision of what the organization is, in fact, aiming for is often essential. There’s a time and a place for open-ended emergence, but many changes demand concrete ends. If they aren’t clear from the start there’s no way to evaluate progress toward their achievement and people can feel quite lost.
Keep in mind, however, this isn’t as much about a specific leader’s personal vision as a shared vision of what the organization needs and why change is important for everyone. Just getting to that shared vision (for example within a leadership team) can be a big thing all its own as a first step together. To the extent the process of defining it actively exemplifies the first four qualities described here, the chances of meaningful change go up because the process then models the change in workplace culture that is also integral to the goal.
Defining Power
You’ll notice that I’m not defining power as authority but as influence to achieve alignment — as the capability to bring people together, to foster creative solutions, to support people and enhance their sense of dignity and value and to take action together based on a shared vision. So long as whatever process is used to implement change focuses on these true sources of organizational power, I believe change can represent an opportunity to which people are drawn, not an infuriating disruption they will find a way to avoid.
Obviously what I am presenting is another theory of change (however brief and oversimplified) — and indeed I too am a consultant. But perhaps there’s some utility here, if only to diagnose why change efforts in your own organization have stalled or sub-optimized themselves in the face of best efforts and strong feelings. You could ask yourself, “Which of the five components was or wasn’t there? What could we (or I) have done differently?”
Your Own Private View of Yourself
And you could go farther to think through what change theory you would create for yourself. In the end, your own theories, not only of change-making but of leadership itself count the most. After all, it’s what we see in our own private ways to grow, develop and change personally and internally that probably have a bearing on the way we try to execute change with others. And that may be why authority alone tends to fail in executing organizational change. It doesn’t work any better that pure control and self-discipline work for personal growth and change.
In this sense, the theory I’ve shared here is a projection of how I think change best happens within me. If I want to change in some way, I have to collaborate with all the voices that arise in me when confronted by that need; I have to be able to surface resistance and become more creative; I have to treat myself well, with dignity and care, and I have to take action, sometimes in very small steps to get started. All of that has to be infused with a vision of the person and leader I want to be. If I can’t learn to exercise power in this way within myself, I probably don’t have much of a chance to exercise it very persuasively with others.
All of this is about the uses of power to create Alignment, Capital A — in the larger, more transformative sense of the word.
- “Undiscussables” are issues that people talk about in with others, just not those who can actually do something about the problem.
- See Ronald A. Heifetz and Donald L. Laurie, “The Work of Leadership,” Harvard Business Review, December 2001.
- See Roger Fisher and William Ury, Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement without Giving In, Penguin Books, 1983.

